Life as I see it...in my own words!!!

     Thank God I remembered that I had a blog. So I am back to writing, blogging and posting. It has been a long while but I am back to blogging again. Hmmm where can I start? Well finally I am back home alone again. Got Derrick to move out and on. He is in Detroit living. He called me yesterday and kinda showed me the room he rents. Not bad and finally. He pays $200 a week. Glad he finally moved on. He finally grew up. He didn't wanna move so Joi came and put his clothes outside. The police assisted her.He had told me that I would have to evict him. So we got him up out of my house. 

My thoughts on  how  life is going...... You definitely have to take the bitter with the sweet. It's your own life do whatever you need to do to make yourself happy. You have to be your make sure your happiness has to come first. Why would anybody seek validation from anybody else? I am my own promotion team. As long as I have breath in my body I will always do my best. Remember everybody else is taken, be yourself. 🙂

I am feeling so inspired,  I am in a great plc right now. I definitely am in a great pace in life right now. I can smile and simply be grateful in life. I make sure that I am eternally gateful,  Life will definitely throw some challenges at you constantly however it depends on how you respond to the challenges that life constant puts in front of you. Mary J has a new song that I am in full support of. Good Mornin Gorgeous,  is my new anthem. 💅,  I love it!! It puts me a great place. I am feeling my self. Music definitely puts me in the best mood. I am in a great mood right now. No matter what life throws at you,  you have to keep going.  At this point in my life I have no purpose is me focusing on self love.Rigjt now,  self love is the abest love. This is my new anthem for life. I am in a great place and in the best mood in my life. I can look at myselfand know

Today went really well. We just hung out and played all day. Of course we took tons of pictures. We enjoyed our day today. My mom and Kay  didn't come her had to get her car fixed today. I loved Quiantae a lot.  So today we say with Kate during our visit. We just chilled all day. First he sat on the tablet playing.  Then I just sat with him enjoying our time together. I sometimes feel bad because I am broke and I didn't really have many snacks to share. But I just gave him whateva I had to share. And he is okay with whatever I had. He's okay with sharing with me.  We played a lot. We always enjoy each other's company as we always do. Today was a good day. We always have a good time together. He always makes my heart smile. Derrick is weird at times because he always thinks that Q doesn't talk but he always does. He isn't too quiet to me, he always talks to me. He talks a lot to me. We are in a good place.  But we are still going through s...

This post was from a few weeks ago. Our Play Date was invaded by Q's daddy last week. Our Play Date was extra special for that day. Derrick decided to not only show up to be but to show his son the love he deserved. So he began to play with Q. Usually his dad is too busy working to come to the library but he showed up to play with his son. At first Derrick went to the mall thinking that we were there but he realized exactly where we were. I had gotten a call from the library and as I walked to the front to ask questions regarding the fone call that I received, apparently Derrick walked in. There were difficulties because Derrick's fone is off and he had bn txt'n through FB messenger. Once I got to the play area that we were in I saw Derrick starting to play with our son. He played with not only Q, he played with Kaleb as well.     This will always be one of my favorite photos. Derrick just enjoying his visit with our son. Our visits always go great. We played al...

“ I can definitely say that my life deals with people who creates drama just because. I used to be a ‘worry wart’. People will bring drama to your life and won’t even care how the drama makes you feel. I had to learn how to not care about anybody else’s drama. Walking away is the best way to avoid everybody elses issues. I had to learn how to stay away from it all. No one else is willing to allow other’s situations to complicate their own lives. Who wants to live like that? How wld that be appropriate? Walking away from a troublesome situation I learned is always best for me. I’ve learned to just stay away from all drama. For my own sanity. Simply saying, this situation is too much for me to deal with so I’ll stay away. I like bein able to talk to a therapist to sort out my problems. I like bein able to tell people how I feel. People never really understand how they make others feel. And they will continue to push your buttons if you let them.  So I'm pushing my blog for it to be r...